A break up is....difficult.
Love is difficult.
Is there even a definition for love?
A REAL definition?
Dictionary.com says this:
1.

a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.

2.

a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.

3.

sexual passion or desire.

4.

a person toward whom love is felt; beloved person; sweetheart.

5.

(used in direct address as a term of endearment, affection, or the like): Would you like to see a movie, love?

Now that is a ......good definition.

But, have you realized how difficult it is to describe it......love?

Especially in the moment.

You usually spat out something about a tingly sensation.

Sometimes, it's an adrenaline rush.

Maybe it's a want or an unsatisfying desire that causes you not to eat for days and cry every night for no reason.

No matter what you feel it is or an be it can suck.....and be perfect.

But, is it worth the risk to be hurt beyond repair?

Is it worth the risk you might screw up someones life or have your life ripped in half?

In my opinion.....yes.

It's worth every second.

It's worth every tear and every whimper.

It's worth every broken heart and broken soul.

Because, in the end we are stronger than ever.

In the end, when you think you can't get any lower, you are slowly rising.

Once you get to the top you're higher than before and the next time you're even higher than that.

Then, when you find the person you will be with forever you know what not to do.

You know how to deal with difficult situations.

You know how to feel and think in their perspective and you know how to love.

This may take three, four, heck it could take SEVENTY SIX TIMES.

But, when the moment comes, and you know this is the one, you will be so strong and so proud that you won't let anything bring you down.

Then, if something does get you down, you will get back up even faster.

That's the beauty of love.

So, embrace love.

Embrace him.

Embrace her.

Embrace everyone!

Because, the more you love the stronger you will be.

The stronger you are the more you will be loved.

Thus completes the cycle.

I love you; I become strong; you love me; you become strong.

Then, together, we can be strong and proud and loved and embraced and in nirvana.

If we got everyone to love and we got everyone strong and sympathetic we could live in a world of peace.

Together we can love each other.